‘Relations are made by god’- This quotation has been known and passed through us since ages. Cent percent true it is as our ancestors through all their wisdom said this. But just sticking to this punch line won’t fetch you a good partner. One it might have helped our fore-kinsmen but not at this modern age. You have to do many hits and trials as then only you can reach to your destined and dream partner. We, with the rush of heavy streamlines of hormones in our body, in our adolescent age i.e. in our early 20s really live in the world of fairy-tales and commercial-films. Obviously, it would not do much harm except stirring your brain to find a quick relationship which is nothing but the aftermath of an infatuation. And we with the grace of almighty hormones and so experienced-inexperienced peers just jump into this and call it a –‘serious and never-ending commitment’. Here you have chosen the wrong track which you follow many dire results which if not solved would ditch you. So here are the 8 reasons which will make you enlightened to not to involve in a serious relationship in your early 20s.
- IMMATURITY IS STILL IN ITS ZENITH
’Early 20s’ is that torrent of our life where we just have reached by breaking the official frontier of childishness. But just bestowed with the Driving license, PAN card and Voter id can’t stamp up the label of ‘MATURITY’ on your silly head. Relationships need a severe sense of responsibility and understanding which vehemently can be noticed in your 20s.
- ITS YOUR CHANCE TO EXPLORE NEW THINGS
Now since you have got all the required government ids and the paternal permission, you should enjoy and live your life and check your limits by crossing every possible limit, which will be blatantly not be possible in your 30s or 40s. Make mistakes and take all spheres of experiences as only these would help you to lead your further life.
- Boredom persistently clouds over you
20s is the peak time where we have the habit to swing like a ‘Pendulum’ as we can’t stick to one singlet and psychology is the prime cause of it. Firstly, you be in a relationship with someone and banner a poster of ‘Serious Commitment’ over your whole body , and suddenly you meet another someone at a party or say in your cousin’s marriage and you start to find him cool or hot or cute (and many other generic adjectives). So it’s better to dispel yourself from seriousness as you can’t row on ‘this one’ in this very fickle-minded age.
- ITS TIME TO OPT WHO CAN IMPLICATE IN BED-ROMANCE BETTER…
Now let me put it explicitly – ‘sex matters a lot in a long and serious relationship’. This is a great expedition need to be made with your body as well as with the partner’s body involved, which can prevail any relationship longer with respect to time. This we all do at the age of early 20s. By this I really don’t want to sense that – ‘sex only matters’, but I also strongly support that – ‘ sexual relationships lasts longer which obviously is a bind of two beautiful souls.’ So better find someone with whom you can have the same ‘heavenly’.
- YOU NEED TO MAKE MONEY
Now don’t begin to shout on me on the above point as behind that shout there is a face who not-necessarily-desperate but have a guaranteed craving for loads of money for the smooth movement of the life-ahead. And ‘there is no harm in it’. We all need money to live our life and support our parents and our future family(which you might have or don’t intend to have). So, build yourselves to make finances as the age of 20s can only pave your path on the same. But keep in mind – ‘only money can’t bring you all the joys of life, only it should be in enough numbers for our subsistence’.
- BE A FOCUSED CAREERSISTIC AT THIS AGE
20s is the age at which youth is its peak. Vigour, interest, zeal to succeed are all at the most unrested and excited moment, which if not directed or guided along a good path might prove to be a regrettable nightmare in the sleep of your future life. So, focus on building a career which can fetch you a decent bank-balance to subsist and assist your future partner with whom you would be in serious commitment, and not just sparing this time on the phony label of ‘Serious Relationship’ on your face.
- YOU WOULD BE DRIFTED AWAY TOWARDS THIS INVOLVED- RELATIONSHIP FROM ANY PRODUCTIVE WORK
Every time you start to study or hanging out with your best friends, your phone beeps and whose on the phone – ‘It’s none other than your BF/GF’. This would kill you from the inside and you would definitely feel a weight on your head and back which you are not capable for. So, enjoy your life with your friends and parents whom you might not or very rarely going to confront in your future. And believe me, this time spent with your family amd friends would keep you cherished up in your ups and downs.
- YOU ARE UTTERLY SELFISH
You are pre-occupied within yourself and traits like -sharing, understanding, compromising , can hardly be seen in you even using binoculars. These are the things which one have to inherent for being on a serious relationship, and that only comes by climbing some stairs of ages beyond 20.